California resident Dr. Miriam Galindo serves as a private practice psychologist and licensed social worker. Serving families and children who are at-risk, she provides co-parenting and reunification therapy services, along with art and play therapy for children. Over the years, Miriam Galindo has helped families manage such childhood problems as aggression.
Although everyone feels anger sometimes, children can struggle with controlling these emotions. As a result, they display their anger through aggressive behaviors, such as biting and kicking. Below are a few ways parents can manage their child’s aggressive behavior:
Be firm and consistent – As children age, they must be taught that some behavior is acceptable and some is not. Whenever a child behaves aggressively, adults must reprimand the child immediately and explain to them why their behavior is wrong. Further, adults must remain consistent when it comes to deciding when and what to say to scold a child.
Remove children from the situation – Certain situations may produce aggressive behaviors, such as refusing to buy a child candy or sweet cereal at the grocery store. In these situations, adults should tell their child that they have to alter their behavior or they will have to leave the environment. Assuming the child does not stop, they should be removed from the situation to help them control their emotions.
Teach them alternative ways to handle anger – Instead of using their bodies to express anger, children should be taught alternative methods for channeling their emotions. Each time a child opts for nonviolent behavior, adults should praise them. Further, children should be shown that conflicts in the home are resolved peacefully to help them understand that violence and aggression is not needed.